Thursday, 2 April 2009

Panel tomorrow

Well panel’s tomorrow and we’ve managed to survive the week without getting too nervous. So far, so good. Tomorrow will be another story, of course. What’s weird is thinking that tomorrow is likely to be one of the most significant days of our lives whatever the outcome.

So what if it’s a “no”? We don’t really want to think about it too much as we want to be positive, but we need to consider that we may be rejected at panel. The obvious thing to do would be to contest the decision through the Independent Review Mechanism (IRM). Failing that we could go to another agency I suppose (if an agency will take you once you’ve been turned down by a panel). It would depend on what reasons we are giving to justify the decision. Like I say, we don’t want to think about it too much.

This evening we are going to go through our Prospective Adopters’ Report again and prepare a couple of questions that Miranda suggested we may get asked. And then we’re going to put it all away and watch a film or something to try to switch off and not get too worked up.

I’ll report tomorrow when we’re back. Keep your fingers crossed for us!

4 comments:

Anonymous said...

Good luck to you both!!! My partner and I are just starting out on this process and are on our 4th home visit. Your blog has given us so much hope and support and we both wish you all the best for tomorrow. EJ

Bonnie said...

GOOD LUCK Fernando and Glen! I really hope tomorrow goes well.

Wow, I have been reading your blog for ages and it has certainly been a long journey... one we're just properly starting ourselves, after an already long journey to get to this point.

I will keep an eye on your blog tomorrow for updates and I really hope to see some good news. :D

Good luck and try to remain optimistic!

Fernando said...

Thank you for your good wishes. Let's hope we have good news to report soon!

Rob said...

Come on!!!! I am hanging off the edge of my seat here! Really hope it is positive news. My partner and I will be opening a bottle of champagne for you this evening.

Have been following your story since we started home visits (only 5 more to go).

Fingers crossed!! I can't wait to hear the news.